Women - The Knowledge To Understand Men

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This information is based purely on the experiences of Alun Jenkins over the last 24 years of intensive interviews with some of Britain's most successful professionals at The Executive Club of St James's, an exclusive introduction agency for professional people.  ( www.thematchmaker.co.uk )  It may appear blunt to the point of cruel, it is a wake up call so you don't leave your choices until it is too late, This is the information I would give to my sister or daughter. I am aware that I run the risk of being suspended from the ceiling by my testicles by feminists but this is the way life really is. I wish you all success in your search for happiness

 High achievers work hard partly to attract the best women to become his mate. He works hard to acquire wealth and status to become attractive to females. Indeed he has some strange behaviour. If he dates you and doesn't fancy you, he will politely pass the time of day and never brag about his worldly goods. If he really fancies you big time, he behaves in a most peculiar way, rather like a peacock shaking its tail. He will start to brag, telling you how successful he is, about his cars, holidays and how young and pretty his last girlfriend was. This usually turns (all but the gold diggers) stone cold. However his behaviour is because he really likes you, he wants to impress you. By bragging about his previous girlfriend being young and stunning he is trying to raise his status in your eyes so you will be impressed with him. He will want to feel superior, strong successful and is trying in his own clumsy way to win you over. This is a weakness of the male bear with it he is underneath this masculine cloak a caring man.

When ladies are not particularly well educated or have not reached the age of 26 the physical appearance of a mate is usually still a high priority. As women become more educated and mature past there mid 20's physical appearance becomes far less of a priority as you look for other more important features, someone that can at least match your intelligence, someone at least as successful as you and definitely stronger than you. Looks should definitely be secondary to physical features.

I have a theory that a man can marry a women, bonk one or divorce one but you can only fall in love with the child that lye's within every woman. She needs to trust her man completely to enable her to show that child and if she does you have bonding for life. It is not possible to love a mean or selfish person Love is about putting someone else's interest before your own.  Only the best of relationships have the bonding necessry to make infidelity inconceivable

For a professional woman to find a deep relationship her man needs to meet some basic criteria,

1. He MUST be intellectually stimulating someone she can look up to and respect. He must be more intelligent than her and STRONGER than her, otherwise she will be the decision maker and the stronger partner and I do not think any woman was designed to be happy in that role.
2. He must be genuinely unattached, no wife other girlfriends just bonking everything he sees or is still influenced by, or joined at the hip to his mother. He has to be free to form a deep committed relationship should that "magic" person come along. She needs to be put first.
3. He must have a broadly similar background culture manners ethics and generally be heading in the same lifestyle direction
4. He must earn as much as her and own as much as her.

One of the problems however with professional women is that they tend to be too strong and independent for their own good and the features that make them successful at work are not features that a guy is seeking in his soulmate. This hard barrier is usually caused by them not feeling as a child they were their fathers princess or having an absent father or one that could not be described an ideal role model. I believe the first love of any woman must be her father and without that strong warm loving role modelling it makes women far too independent to attract the right sort of man. If your previous partners were too weak, selfish, married or deceitful its not their fault it's yours! You must learn how to sort out life's losers and attract strong caring men.

Statistics.

The success for a woman finding a partner is very age dependant. A successful man will given the choice prefer someone slim attractive and younger. It becomes a very competitive environment for a single woman from aged 36 onwards. A successful man aged 45 can if he so chooses still date women in their late 20's easily. From the statistics from the last population census it shows there are two unattached professional women aged 35 to 50 for every unattached professional male. It is likely that only one out of 4 or 5 successful professional women if they are still seeking a partner at age 40 will find a long term partner of their own. . So give it your best shot now, put effort into relationships before time robs you of the opportunity.

RELATIONSHIP OF AGE TO FINDING A PARTNER

Ladies aged under 28  are in control, men of all ages are trying to gain your attention you are in the lucky position of being able to pick and choose.  For those lucky enough to have a perfect role model of a father who for every day of their life he has made you feel like a princess is highly likely to find her lifetime partner. ladies aged 28 to 32, having a good time? lots of interest? time is now ticking by, only relationships that are deep and meaningful with the potential to lead to "the one forever should now be embarked upon. Footlose and fancy free at this stage can lead to sitting  in your flat for 40 years  on your own after age 45 a good job will help but when that comes to end what then? 32 to 37  Don't waste that youthful beauty your TOP priority should now be to find yourself a long term partner, set out a plan, give yourself a time scale and revise it after a year or so then be prepared to compromise as the best 18 years God ever gave you to find the right man hasn't worked so the next few years are even harder eventually becoming  near impossible. 38 to 42  High chance you will not conceive so why is "father of your child" still so important, more important to find a good man to share your life with at least you could still adopt but time is now running against you do not waste it. ** see below sexually attractive late 40,s   42 to 48  Our advice compromise heavily settle for someone to share your life with that will make it a lot brighter than sitting in the flat on your own for 30 years especially as your normal time fillers of your family and your career is taken away.   over 48  The chances are not good   to pairing up with a man, enjoy your life, make the best of it, and make a start to live your life so that it is enjoyable and that there is a good life to be had albeit outside of men’s company, life is very finite and will soon whiz along  at an alarming pace.  SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE LATE 40's Hell the amount of women I've met haven’t got the message,  They are sexually attractive and have men dating them all the time what’s the problem. The problem is their intentions are as far as your knickers, mention the word "commitment" and they run faster than a cheetah after a vindaloo cuirry.  Of course they tell you how young and beautiful you look hardly likely to get in your pants by talking about you ageing features. Most of these guys have wives at home or no intention of settling down, see how attractive you are to a genuine guy that is faithful and looking to settle down because they are the only men that count anyone can attract life’s  losers

Babies?

GOD IS A MAN

He gives ladies youthful beauty in their 20's with baby making equipment that works every time, but then from early 30's onwards cruelly takes away these features to attract a lifetime mate, rewarding her over time with fat ,cellulite, wrinkles saggy body parts and the like,  and starts shutting down the baby equipment at a unnecessary early age ( see  independent web site below for factual details  48% of 35 year olds may not be fertile)   He takes man, and at 25 gives him athletic looks and build  with  good baby making equipment.  He too loses his youthful looks with age but with a cruel twist, he still makes ladies attracted to him anyway, looks are secondary to other features after a certain age, and his baby making  assets can still produce into his 80's.  The irony is that where a women's chances of finding that magic relationship declines with age a mans actually increases with age.  A man age 23 is likely to be attractive to women 17 to 24ish an age spread of just 7 years maximum whereas a  man of 59 - Sir Richard Branson for example could date 25 to 60 (or whatever age he chooses) a spread of 35 years whereas a lady of 59 would be lucky to date from 55 to 70 if there were any spare men about.  Whether you join an agency or not do not leave it late to settle down with a good partner, it's a long lonely life for most women who fail to prioritise this part of their life, far more important than your career I suggest. Because men are not under a time pressure as  women are to find a long term partner men have different time scales and priorities.  They may put serious relationships on the back burner until they've completed other life’s wants climb Mount Everest, be a rally driver travel the world etc. then eventually at some stage in his life most men will then get the biological urge to find and settle down with his soulmate as bonking pretty women no longer satisfies the need within him. Go get him!

The chances of concieving are greatly reduced with age. the probabilty of conceiveng within one year of trying is age related with 86% sucsess for under 24's, 78% for 25-29, 63% for under 35's, 52% for 35 to 39, 36% 40-44, falling to just 5% for age 44 to 49 a good web site for information is www.2womenshealth.com/Infertility-male-female-test-cause-treatment.htm

SIMPLE FACTS ABOUT A MAN

He does not have sufficient blood in his body to operate his penis and his brain simultaneously!

If your relationship is not very special most men given the opportunty will "play away from home" although it would not have any emotional depth to the man but is usually devastating to the women.

If you are trully in love with each other there is nothing tempting enough for him to betray your trust but it has to b a very special relationship way beyongd most "ordinary marrages" where around 60% of marrages at sometime are involved in affairs.

A tangible example of Love.

An express train was involved in a serious crash in Canada some years ago. The guy found himself outside the carriage on the track. His wife however was trapped in the restaurant car and could not get out. Unfortunately the restaurant car caught fire so the husband went into the burning car and when realising that he could not free his wife sat down beside her, held her hand and died with her. That's Love, and when a woman knows her man would do that for her, without even having to think  about it, she is then capable of giving "her all" to the relationship that becomes so special it is true love and most people die without ever experiencing it. Love is knowing he puts you first and you him..

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updated 22 September   2009

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