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This information is based purely on the experiences of Alun Jenkins over the last 20 years of intensive interviews with some of Britain's most successful professionals at The Executive Club of St James's, an introduction agency for professional people.

Professional men become high achievers partly to attract the best women to become his mate. He works hard to acquire wealth and status to become attractive to females. Indeed he has some strange behaviour. If he dates you and doesn't fancy you, he will politely pass the time of day and never brag about his worldly goods. If he really fancies you big time, he behaves in a most peculiar way, rather like a peacock shaking its tail. He will start to brag, telling you how successful he is, about his cars, holidays and how young and pretty his last girlfriend was. This usually turns (all but the gold diggers) stone cold. However his behaviour is because he really likes you, he wants to impress you. By bragging about his previous girlfriend being young and stunning he is trying to raise his status in your eyes so you will be impressed with him. He will want to feel superior, strong successful and is trying in his own clumsy way to win you over. This is a weakness of the male bear with it he is underneath this masculine cloak a caring man.

When ladies are not particularly well educated or have not reached the age of 26 the physical appearance of a mate is usually still a high priority. As women become more educated and mature past there mid 20's physical appearance becomes far less of a priority as you look for other more important features, someone that can at least match your intelligence, someone at least as successful as you and definitely stronger than you. Looks should definitely be secondary to physical features.

I have a theory that a man can marry a women, bonk one or divorce one but you can only fall in love with the child that lye's within every woman. She needs to trust her man completely to enable her to show that child and if she does you have bonding for life. It is not possible to love a mean or selfish person Love is about putting someone else's interest before your own.

For a professional woman to find a deep relationship her man needs to meet some basic criteria,

1. He MUST be intellectually stimulating someone she can look up to and respect. He must be more intelligent than her and STRONGER than her, otherwise she will be the decision maker and the stronger partner and I do not think any woman was designed to be happy in that role.
2. He must be genuinely unattached, no wife other girlfriends just bonking everything he sees or is still influenced by, or joined at the hip to his mother. He has to be free to form a deep committed relationship should that "magic" person come along. She needs to be put first.
3. He must have a broadly similar background culture manners ethics and generally be heading in the same lifestyle direction
4. He must earn as much as her and own as much as her.

One of the problems however with professional women is that they tend to be too strong and independent for their own good and the features that make them successful at work are not features that a guy is seeking in his soulmate. This hard barrier is usually caused by them not feeling as a child they were their fathers princess or having an absent father or one that could not be described an ideal role model. I believe the first love of any woman must be her father and without that strong warm loving role modelling it makes women far too independent to attract the right sort of man. If your previous partners were too weak, selfish, married or deceitful its not their fault it's yours! You must learn how to sort out life's losers and attract strong caring men.

Statistics.

The success for a woman finding a partner is very age dependant. A successful man will given the choice prefer someone slim attractive and younger. It becomes a very competitive environment for a single woman from aged 36 onwards. A successful man aged 45 can if he so chooses still date women in their late 20's easily. From the statistics from the last population census it shows there are two unattached professional women aged 35 to 50 for every unattached professional male. It is likely that only one out of 4 successful professional women aged over 40 will marry if they are still seeking a partner at age 40. So give it your best shot now, put effort into relationships before time robs you of the opportunity.

Babies?

The chances of concieving are greatly reduced with age.  the probabilty of conceiveng within one year of trying is age related with 86% sucsess for under 24's, 78% for 25-29, 63% for under 35's, 52% for 35 to 39,  36% 40-44, falling to just 5% for age 44 to 49  a good web site for information is www.womenshealth.com

A tangible example of Love.

An express train was involved in a serious crash in Canada some years ago. The guy found himself outside the carriage on the track. His wife however was trapped in the restaurant car and could not get out. Unfortunately the restaurant car caught fire so the husband went into the burning car and when realising that he could not free his wife sat down beside her, held her hand and died with her. That's Love, and when a woman knows her man would do that for her, without having to think long about it, she is then capable of giving "her all" to the relationship that becomes so special it is true love and most people die without ever experiencing it. Love is knowing he puts you first.

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updated 3rd January  2009

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